Knock on the Door Please

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By bingskee

Teach the Child to Knock Before Entering

They say there are techniques to teach the children to do right. The elders have to be diplomatic though some say they have to be strict. Children will be upset if the elders are hard and will surely not follow anything anymore. If you talk to them nicely, they will be happy to follow:

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Be a Friend

Socialize with the kids and talk to them lightly. This is to have an opportunity of having the child to open up and telling them what to do. When they become your friend you can tell them that they have to knock before they enter the house or a room. It would be much better than scolding them why they do not knock on the door. Scolding will not be effective.

Challenge Them

Tell them that you will give them their favorite snack or a pint of ice cream if they learn how to knock once a week.  There are other ways to challenge them.  Offer them anything you know they will appreciate when they are able to do the challenge.

Remind Them

Children are naturally easy to forget.  Put reminders on the doors to help them remember.  Reminders will develop their sense of awareness.

Encourage the Children in the Neighborhood

You can try telling every child in the neighborhood this lesson of knocking in the door first before entering.  This will be passed on from one child to another until it reaches your child.  And because it is a group activity, your child will be encouraged to do the same

Locking the Door

Locking the door will oblige the child to knock before entering.  If this will be practiced, the child will learn the rule.

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Lady_E profile image

Lady_E Level 7 Commenter 2 years ago

Very simple, but very important and they will take the habit with them wherever they go in life. :)

ralwus 2 years ago

Wonderful tips on parenting. thanks

bingskee profile image

bingskee Hub Author 2 years ago

simple things can mean a lot, Lady_E. i am reminded of how a tiny hole can sink a big ship, though it's the opposite. :-)

thank you, too, walrus, for appreciating.

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2patricias 5 weeks ago

I do like the idea of teaching children how to behave, rather than punishing them when they don't behave according to our expectations.

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bingskee Hub Author 5 weeks ago

hello to you, 2 patricias! there were times when the children were young that i gave in to punishment but just to emphasize. :) sometimes the kids can be truly difficult and test you when they want something.

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