Make Love, Don't Just Have Sex
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One of the amazing things to experience in life is sex.
Husbands and wives are fortunate than the single individuals in this aspect. The notion that it is all about sex is forgotten and they know that there is love to hold on to which is more than just having sex. However, there is danger still and love between them has to be nurtured.
Husbands are more inclined to focus on sex playing an important role in the relationship. It is therefore the wives’ role to understand and do something to keep the fire burning.
Wives should not make their husbands feel that they are doing their part in the sexual thing as an obligation. They have to let their male partners feel that they are enjoying sex and love at the same time. They have to participate more by reciprocating what the husband is doing in bed.
Wives should make their husbands feel that they are needed. It is required that they sometimes initiate the love act because giving satisfaction and joy is not a one way proposition. The responsibility for good sex lies on the shoulders of both the husband and the wife. It could become a problem if one day one of the partners feels that he/she is the only one doing more for the sex thing.
Because husbands think more about sex than their partners, wives have to learn to be in good mood most of the time. It may sound not an ordinary thing but doing the effort maybe worth it. For example, if the husband wanted toe licking and it will not be a big deal to you, then giving in to add to the excitement will make the sex part of the relationship more interesting and intense.
Doing that you don’t usually do can satisfy both of you so there is no harm trying. The bottom line is you enjoy each other and each moment. This will bring you closer to each other.
In addition, wives should take care of themselves. Husbands are always conscious of how their partners look. He will always love to look at and hug a nice body. So it is important that wives should also be conscious of their physical appearance.
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hello, maven! it's been a long time. haven't been able to get active in hubpages but i am glad you appreciated the latest hub.
true, husbands also have to keep themselves fit and healthy, too (a requirement for the activity ha ha)
it is sad that nowadays, even here in the Philippines, sex is becoming a casual thing. women do not value respect for themselves anymore. i understand it is a choice but like you, later in their lives these things will contribute to their being. i hope they will be able to cope with married life, if they choose it one day.
taking care of yourself is a two way street.
it is wendy. :-) though it seems that this hub tells more about the woman exerting the effort, i believe that taking care of the self is a two way process.
Without any doubt, you re a wonderful counselor.
All you ve mentioned fit. A great and awesome piece!
maven101 Level 5 Commenter 15 months ago
Hi Maria...Great advise on Valentine's Day...Husbands have an obligation to keep themselves looking sexy and attractive also...Get off the couch and move the bod...
This latest fad in college where women causally " hook up " and just have sex frequently and randomly, will provide serious relationship problems for these young women when they get married and have to adapt to a monogamous lifestyle...Larry