The Dangers of a Fake Smile

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By bingskee


To fake a smile is stressful. A person fools himself when he shows people a vibrant smile but absolutely despise doing it.

Some jobs or occupation, however, will require one to smile or show goodwill through smiling. There is a store in a little mall along the highway in Quezon City* that sells goods or items at discounted prices. It has these typical employees. The sellers (sales lady or salesman) in that store try their very best to show their teeth and greet in a very loud voice saying tediously “Good morning/afternoon, sir/madam, welcome to ****!” It can be irritating at times listening to their voices reverberating inside the store but it is a concern, too, what their current emotional statuses are.

There is a study headed by a certain Dr. Brent Scott at Michigan State University that tells it is ‘hazardous to the health when a person fakes a bright smile to cover the real emotions‘. He argued that ‘a forced smile can result in emotional exhaustion and can subsequently; damage the mental health of the person‘. He added that ‘women are more susceptible than their male counterparts’.

How are women more susceptible? In the study, it identified them because they are tied up with being emotionally expressive therefore making it harder for them to hide what they truly feel. True enough, women are characterized by their tendencies to verbalize their emotions. In suppressing what they truly feel and showing a different emotion, they could become counterproductive and moody.

In an article by Anahad O’Connor of the New York Times, ‘The Claim: A Fake Smile Can be Bad for Your Health’, Dr. Scott and his fellow scientists was mentioned to have studied drivers that experienced fake smiling described as ’surface acting’. The opposite, ‘deep acting’, or the display of genuine smiles was also observed. Deep acting was generated by positive thoughts as explained by the group.

Although the power of smiles can greatly affect other people that we get to interact with in a positive way, anotherarticle by Dr. Mercola emphasizes that forcing or faking a smile without actually feeling it can be bad to the health. The doctor suggested about cultivating happiness as a way of reversing negative thoughts and this can be done by thinking that you are happy, as an affirmation, and much like what the adage says that ‘Happiness is a choice.’

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RTalloni profile image

RTalloni Level 8 Commenter 9 months ago

So glad you posted this! It's something that should be obvious but which I haven't thought through. Thanks.

I can't agree with the doctor that we can reverse unhappiness by thinking that we are happy--I would have to give some thought to wording the real solution because it's important and needs to be worded accurately. However, to highlight the fact that a fake smile is unhealthy is a service to us. Thanks again!

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Thelma Alberts Level 6 Commenter 9 months ago

You are right. Faking a smile is hazardous to our health. I can detect when a smile is falls and I hate it. But then when one is dealing with a client, one should be friendly. Thanks for sharing.

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Barbara Kay Level 6 Commenter 9 months ago

My mother taught us to smile all the time. I didn't learn the lesson because I don't do it. Thank goodness! I didn't realize that it was bad for a person. I have faked a smile when it was appropriate though.

This was a good thing to share. I didn't realize that it can be bad for you.

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bingskee Hub Author 8 months ago

hi, RTalloni! thank you for sharing your thoughts. had second thoughts about it, too.

hello, thelma! the travails of working that requires a smile.

hi, barbara. glad you find it helpful!

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bingskee Hub Author 8 months ago

hi, RTalloni! thank you for sharing your thoughts. had second thoughts about it, too.

hello, thelma! the travails of working that requires a smile.

hi, barbara. glad you find it helpful!

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ubanichijioke Level 7 Commenter 6 months ago

A great piece.

But i believe that happiness is a matter of choice and individuality. It comes either by the way we do things, how we do it and why. Faking a smile instead of contributing to our happiness tends to bring us closer to frustration. So the choice is ours to make. Thanks

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